The DJ calls your name and asks for you to head to the dance floor. You’re standing there with your new husband, under the spotlight, while family and friends start to crowd around. It’s time for the first dance. Make sure it’s a first dance they will all remember with these 10 top tips.
No experience necessary
With the rising popularity of reality dance shows we all know that dancing is no longer just for professionals.
Your first dance doesn’t have to be all singing all dancing – just you and your h2b, with a desire to enjoy yourselves will definitely make for a memorable dance.
Get the party started
I recommend you dance for part of the song, and then use the rest as an opportunity to get the other guests involved.
Practice makes perfect
Not even professional dancers wing it! Learn some moves from a pro or at least take some time to push back the furniture and experiment.
Watching three minutes of the “huggy shuffle” can kill the party atmosphere for your guests, and they will be less likely to get up and join you on the floor!
Rehearse in your shoes
Reconnect as a couple
It can get busy in the lead up to the big day, so having a few lessons to create your first dance not only gives you confidence on the dance floor, but also time to reconnect as a couple.
Keep it simple
With so many things to think about on the day you don’t want to be worrying about remembering a long routine, keep it short and sweet. That way you’ll leave your audience wanting more.
Avoid dress mishaps
Put on your dress and practice! It’s easy to put a heel through a long skirt or pop out of a strapless dress!
Forget the flaws
Don’t worry if you make mistakes, no one knows your routine, except you two. So keep going, guys lead the way and enjoy the moment!
Music that matters
Choose a song that means something to you both. This will help you enjoy what could be a daunting part of your special day.
Don’t get mixed up
Make sure that you send your DJ your song version. That way you don’t get a remixed track that isn’t the same as you’ve been rehearsing to.
If you’re planning your first dance, our Wedding Music and Entertainment section has everything you need to plan your pinnacle dance as husband and wife.